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I am all alone , neither have i any friends.. i feel so empty in life.?
Hi there, i am normally very bubly, witty and socialable guy, aged 25, and working in security. My job is to still all alone all day long and i dont get time to socialise. I have not been left with any friend because of my work and sommr gone abroad etc. I feel so empty within myself and wish i could have lots of friends.
Plus i dont drink, neither smoke, try to keep myself healthy by avoiding those stuff.
My question here is how do i cope with bh being alone all the time??
8 Answers
- ?Lv 41 decade agoFavourite answer
dont b alone all the time take time off work socialise being a loner isnt good 4 anyone
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
Hang in there! I understand how you feel, I just moved far away from my home of 11 years. One thing has really helped me from feeling alone. Talk to God and tell him your struggles. He listens and wants us to be happy. This may sound weird, but don't just pray meaninglessly. Actually talk out loud, or in your head (whichever is more comfortable) to God as if he was in the room having a conversation with you. Share your struggles, ask questions and give thanks for what you do have. Be thankful that you even have a job when so many people are living on the streets. There is a reason you are struggling right now, everything is a part of his plan. Even if you can't see it now, on the other side of death all of the world's mysteries will become clear. The Lord gives us trials and tribulations, because how we deal with them determines what rewards you earn in heaven. Don't confuse that though, with thinking that it is the same thing as getting you there to heaven. I'm not sure where you stand with God, so below I also posted a link to help if you'd like to accept Jesus as your savior. also down below there's some links with different videos/articles that might help :) check them out, each one provides different thing so I'd suggest you look at them all. The first one explains trials, the next one talks about lonliness, after is a video "Love Letter From God", then another video "Lifehouse Everything Skit", and finally the prayer of salvation. Good luck and God bless, hope this helps a lot <3
Source(s): http://www.openbible.info/topics/trials_and_tribul... http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1137954/s... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEfJpJ1lhQc&feature... http://www.metacafe.com/watch/803393/lifehouse_eve... http://www.allaboutgod.com/prayer-of-salvation.htm - 1 decade ago
one way to keep from being or feeling alone would be to join a club, (gym) one can meet new people, and ccreate a new circle of friends. one could do this on days off. another would be to go the library, figure out what interests you and see if there are any of these things happening in your area, this would help to create a new circle of friends too, who knows you may even meet your wife this way too. i wish you the best of luck, but please dont feel lonely, life is too short.
Source(s): own life experience, have been here before. - Anonymous1 decade ago
Read a book, visit family/old friends, get a pen pal.... get a hobby? :D
Source(s): I'm alone a lot too - Anonymous1 decade ago
start drinking and go out... would you rather have a good life and live to 75 or a boring dull life and live to 80 ( assuming you havent shot through the head before then ) ::D
