How come people and my friend keep on talking trash about me and disrespecting my culture and my culture's traditions ?

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So I've just about had with people and their crap and I'm becoming psychotic. I'm becoming psychotic and I just want to hurt some people. I'm so sick of people like andy and everyone who harasses me and puts me down for still living at home. I've said this before and that it is perfectly normal for a vietnamese guy or girl to still live at home with their parents. Almost all of my cousins did that and they moved out when they got married. Even a few vietnamese tiktokers that I watch, they still live with their parents. One of them, she is 28 and still lives with her parents. This is perfectly normal and my sister and my brother in law recently moved back in with us. I'm sick of this and I can't wait until the site shuts down in a few days so I don't have to put up with this crap anymore and when it does shutdown I'm gonna block andy on all platforms. I just don't get what's the big deal about this when other vietnamese folks are doing the same thing that I'm doing. I'm not an american, I'm vietnamese and I just live here, thats it. When I move to houston soon in a few months, I have high confidence that I will make new friends and possibly meet some women over there who will date me. I don't get why people just won't quit disrespecting my culture. Just leave me alone if you don't have anything nice to say.

Ann · Answer

Kenneth/Jacob,
 No one is making fun of your culture.  There are many, many Vietnamese young people who live all over America.  They move out and start their own lives at 18-20.  They either go to college, or they work.  If you believe you're not American, then you should leave and go to VIetnam.  The problem is, the people there won't want you, either.  Your behaviors  are what has gotten you into the position you're in.  No one wants to deal with a person who constantly rants and raves about hurting others, lives in a fantasy world about emulating t.v. characters, does childish things such as ding dong ditching people, and threatens to blow up buildings.  You are mentally unstable and you choose to live off of your parents.  I'm sure they would probably be very happy to see you leave.  Your culture is just fine--it's you personally who is the problem.  You are the one who never has anything nice to say to or about anyone.

ajtheactress · Answer

Blah, blah, blah.

Whine, whine, whine.

You've posted about this before and your blatant hypocrisy about picking and choosing what "cultural traditions" you follow and what ones you don't has already been firmly established.

You've also proudly shared a really amateur youtube video where you bashed your own vietnamese culture because they emphasize the importance of a college education.

And once again the pipe dream that you will be moving to houston rears it pointed head.

You aren't going anywhere, you don't have a job, you don't have any money and you refuse to even clean up your messy room so your parents can sell the house you currently live in [rent free].

Repeating lies doesn't make them true.

Being autistic is not a free pass and being an inept liar and troll is not a disability, jacob.

Anonymous · Answer

so are you having fun with that new NERF gun you bought for your 'gun collection'?

Anonymous · Answer

Why are you waiting till Y!A shuts down to block Andy on all platforms? Why not just do it now and save time? By the way, the reason everyone puts you down isn't because you still live at home. It's your behavior.

Anonymous · Answer

Just shut up and cut the crap already Kenneth. Your only saying that because you can't handle the fact that AJ is actually correct. NO WOMAN WOULD WANT TO DATE A GUY WHO LIVES AT HOME WITH THEIR PARENTS AT 30. I know quite a few people who are vietnamese and they ALL MOVED OUT when they turned 18. Your the only one who has ever made such false claims. I've asked them about you and they all said your pathetic and that your friend andy is correct, you'll never get laid. You need to get your act together and go get a job and move out if you ever want to have a relationship but of course you will not take my advice so I don't even know why I'm wasting my time typing this.

If you want to continue to act like an *** and still live at home when you turn 40 then so be it.

How come people and my friend keep on talking trash about me and disrespecting my culture and my culture's traditions ?

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