Can someone give me motivation to not give up?

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I am a 24 year old woman, I am a full time college student , I work full time, I am the primary care taker of my son (his dad has been in prison since he was 1 he is 4 now), I get off and cook and clean everyday, do all the grocery shopping and I'm trying to keep up my physical health so I go to the gym 6 days a week as well. Not to mention I sometimes do waitr and door dash on the weekends, I finally paid off my car and have my own place. I feel like my brain never rest I want to give up but I know I cant so any motivation?

Anonymous · Answer

Well You should have used a condom

drip · Answer

Cut back on what you can. Exercise is great for your mental and physical health, but drop the gym payment and get out with your son. Go for walks, play baseball, run around, go the playground.

Can you live without the money from door dash, drop it if you can.

If you don’t make some changes you will burn out.

? · Answer

Your doing a great job you'll know when if you're not.

megalomaniac · Answer

Wow, that's a lot on your plate.  Don't forget to take some time off and relax.  At that pace you're going to burn yourself out.  If I were you I would do either full time college or full time work, or part time in both.  That of course would mean less money to play with but with lifestyle changes that is possible.  But that's me.  You have to do you.  Maybe go for a walk three days a week and only go to the gym three days a week. Walking is still good exercise but it is also a good way to relax at the same time (walking is good for the brain and good for your mood).  Your problem is not motivation, your problem is that you are trying to do too much all at the same time.  You need to figure out how to do less and have some more time to relax, that will give you more energy to continue.

Can someone give me motivation to not give up?

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