Why do some people think its better to just get laid by ugly and or fat girls just to do it instead of aiming high or staying out of it?

Some people like fat girls.

They don't have lower standards, they simply don't date skinny people.

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You don't have standards, you have a fantasy! Don't worry about what they look like. You sure ain't any prize! The least likely looking ones, are often the best.

its your loss

You are only considering physical appearance. There's a whole lot more to people and relationships than that. Things such as the personalities, characters, intelligences, etc. of the people involved. Those are the most important things.

Don't lower your standards, ever. Finding a suitable pair-bonding partner takes a lot of work, and that includes working on yourself because quality women are picky - picky - picky. But in that pursuit always keep in mind that it takes two to make it work. My best answer for the following question speaks for itself. Make of it what you will.

https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20190...

We all have choices in life. Some are sensible and some are not.

You have made certain choices and you are a 40 year old virgin.

That's OK provided you are happy being a 40 year old virgin.

If you are not happy being a 40 year old virgin, you might want to consider whether your choices were right or whether your attitude was right.

There is no right answer. We all make choices and accept the consequences.

Keep aiming high. I'm sure you're getting hotter every year.

Idk. I never had to resort that. Unlike you I can get the hot ones.