My brother is getting married and I don't approve, how do I talk to him about it?

Well you can't be against their relationship because they haven't dated as long as YOU think they should. You can't judge someone's feelings based on your opinion on how long people should date. However, if you think she's a nasty person and don't like her personality or the way she treats your brother, that's a different story. So unless she's hurting you, your family, or your brother, I would just let them do their thing because it's their life and not yours. Although it's a big shame that she's mooching off of your brother. Does she get disability for her "severe anxiety disorder"? Or is she just using it as an excuse?

Hi. Don't Listen to Loony. Hirra is correct, the best way is to talk to you brother. Persuade him and give lots of reasons. Tell him how you feel, how your heart feels. Try talking to him, is it too soon? Don't worry. Just have a talk and give him some time to think after the conversation. Let him know you're not against him, you're just suggesting him. Please, if you need any more suggestions, Reply back and I'd be happy to help. :)

Unfortunately? You don't. You realize that while you love him and want what is best for him, he is an adult, and has the freedom to make his own choices (mistakes…). I can completely relate, my brother is marrying the most vile, manipulative woman I have ever met in just about three weeks. Every day there is some new sort of drama going on with them and their wedding. My entire family is in agreement that she is a terrible choice for him, but he is *not* going to listen. And ultimately, it is his life and his mistake to make if it is one.

Just talk to him privately about it. Tell him what you wrote about the question. Unfortunately you can't decided what he does, you can make him think about it more.

sit him down alone and seriously talk to him

MYOB