Car Accident 45 Days Ago and Still Severe Pain?

Hi Stephen here from Long Island. I was in a Car Accident 45 days ago and Still Severe Pain. I was stopped at a red light and someone hits me from Behind. I was the only one in the car. they told me I have herniated 3 disc 1 in my neck and 2 in my back and have nerve damage. I am still in Severe pain 45 days later. I am on a Morphine Patch and that is not helping much at all. I was on Codeine but the doctor gave me the Patch because he saw me crying and in so much pain. Am I making a Mountain out of a Mole hill or is this Normal. I been going through Psychical Therapy and that is not helping worth a Dame. They gave me a Pain/Numbing shot in my back and that has not helped either. I see a Spine Doctor on Monday of the coming week. What will he do I want to have surgery but can he do it if I ask him to nicely be3cause of my severe Pain. Also I have not got a lawyer yet any good? Respond what this Severe Pain could be?