i have 3 women why cant i settle down?

it is clear that your problem is that you have too many women for you to comfortably settle down. isn't it emotionally drainning to have 3 women at the same time??

what is your ideal way to settle down? with 1? 2? or 3 women? you have to figure out what you want to acheive first.

and when you meet the right person, the decision would be easy. if you really love this one person and emotionally connected with this person, you wouldn't want to have more women, may be you haven't found one that you could/want to settle down with?!?

How do you deal with all these without hurting someone?? you are already hurting everybody involved!! maybe just that they don't know yet. it would be very hurtful if they know that you have different women in different countries!!

what you need to do now: untangle yourself from this mess. just chill. step back and take a break, and ask yourself, " what the hell am i doing? what am i trying to acheive? what do i want to do? how many woman can i settle down with?" don't let any of your women to be involved in this decision. after you figure out what you want, then the solution would be clear.

if you want to have 3 women, then you can continue to have 3 women, and suffer.

if you want to have 2 women, then you will have to get rid of one of them.

if you want to have just 1 woman, then you will have to get rid of 2 of them. ha ha

if you want to be alone for awhile, then you will have to get rid of all 3 of them!

ask yourself what do you want, then just follow your heart.

I'm sorry i haven't had this done to me before but I think that maybe

that who ever is ready to take on the role u want them to take on then go for the one girl that u believe will take on this role and properly love you care for you and be there when you need her most so make sure that u tell who ever u don't love as much and don't think they could take on the role tell them that u don't think it will work and also i know that it could hurt them but if u don't do something they are all going to find out and the one u really loved will be gone so take the risk after all its worth it

hope this helps good luck!

Well I'm sure you find something interesting in each of these women or you wouldn't be with them. Imagine your world with all those little things you love about each of those women all wrapped up in one. You just haven't found someone that has everything you want yet and by having 3 women your getting what you want. If I were you I would ditch all 3 women and work on yourself. What If that perfect woman comes along and you screw it up by letting her find out how "social" you are.

Jay--it is your existence and you're doing it the way you desire--aside from 2 young ones which you're actually not grounded to...it somewhat is a sprint creepy. yet I did the comparable bounce around existence for my entire existence--merely NO young ones. different than you having a topic committing--or getting sttled, what you're doing isn't a criminal offense. I flew in the air rigidity--I honestly have been a firefighter for 34 years---did the parachute factor--drove and confirmed all varieties of automobiles--had a eating place---had boats---drove bypass united states of america a zillion cases in basic terms for exciting--hi I did each and every of the stuff that a kin might have prevented me from doing. NOW i'm 60 and be apologetic approximately no longer having that kin--you have already got young ones--do you do something with them?? i do no longer understand what to tell you--you sound like me---I had each and every excuse to no longer quiet down. No woman enjoyed my possibility dependancy. i'm a sprint sorry for no longer turning out to be up and settling down. God I spent a million on all dumb stuff--no longer something to teach for it--and no one even cares to talk approximately it. merely yet another previous guy with "HAS BEEN" thoughts. solid success on in spite of you choose for.

know what, don't get me wrong but men are really polygamous in nature...but I also believe that time will come that you will change...You are not yet married right?...just give yourself a chance to think! Give yourself a break...

And after that, talk to them..let them realized that you need someone to settle down with..And if you feel that one of them is willing to love you for who you are, then go for it!!! But if no one of them, then move forward and wait when someone comes around...REMEMBER this, true love is not to be find, it just comes in a right time and with a right person...U will just feel it when it is already there!!!

And with your question on how will u settle it without hurting anyone, I doubt if that is possible because no matter what, they will get hurt naturally...But eventually you will all move on when time comes...

Just patiently wait for the Right person!!!

Good luck!!!

dave dave dave.wat r u playing at hun???u being a little greedy now arent u.u no the rules of love 1 woman or ya gona get hurt.now then how wud u like it hypothetically speaking that your daughter comes to u and tells u dat this bloke shes been seeing has got 2 other women in his life and she doesnt no wat to do.she heart broken and u cant get your daughter to calm down as shes so hurt by all this.how wud u be felling???like ripping the blokes head off.the point im trying to make is dat these women are some1s children at the end of the day.god judges people like dis.u need to sit down and choose which 1 of these ladies is more suited to u dave.stop the being greedy thing and sort it out.been in relationships like dis and guess wat we all ended up finding out about each other and it kicked off big time.1 ended up pregnant not me thank u god.but i was so glad to be outa there.drama or wat.and i dont do drama especially in relationships.anyway dave get to it right away and sort ya little problem out asap.its not good be living ya life like dis hun.good luck.pinksssssssssss

I had been divorced for several years, and had a rotation of 4 wonderful lady friends, that were all "keepers". Then I met my wife and sadly, I broke up with all of them. Married 'way over 20 years now. Your behavior is just fine. Takes a lot of sampling to find "the one".

when you will find the one you will settle,when you fall in love for real you will not feel this way,try to see which is the woman you want to be with,but is not fair to be unfaithful,think this situation you will settle only when you really want