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I think my bf of 2 years is cheating,any advice on how I can find out?

well basically,i'd just like to know if my bf is cheating. We've been together for a while now,I love him to death & I know he loves me but...we argue ALOT & i just have this weird feeling that he's cheating....the last time i was being suspicious & feeling like this...unfortunatly..i found out that he really was cheating.I read all his little myspace/facebook messages while he was asleep. I know thats invading his privacy but I simply knew he was cheating. I just want to know if there's any was i can know for sure..or find out if he is. i just really hate being lied to & hes hurt me so soooo bad when he cheated before....plz give me your opinions :(

thnx

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  • 1 decade ago
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    talk to him privately and tell him how you feel and both find a way to resolve this. if he really loves you he will care. And you see how much this relationship is worth to salvage. Don't quarrel too much, talk to each other calmly n lovingly i know it's difficult but try :) good luck

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    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Check his cell phone if myspace and facebook aren't enough to help you. Personally it sounds like you are a nice person and could do better, he probrably is cheating on you because he knows you will take him back and thinks you don't have anyone else to go to. If you are right this time its the 2nd time he has cheated, personally i wouldn't have given anyone a second chance but i guess you are nice like that, but yeah forget him and move on or you will be like this the rest of your life worrying that he is cheating, you need someone you can trust.

  • 5 years ago

    To be trustworthy, if each individual replaced into drunk, are you exact it was rape? a lot of human beings have had intercourse on an identical time as intoxicated while normally they might now no longer (no longer that i'm attempting to trivialize your project, in spite of the undeniable fact that that's probably the terrific questions, once you have been to bear in mind pressing costs, they are going to ask). Are you specific, that on an identical time as intoxicated, which you in simple terms did no longer in some small way consent or might desire to be he replaced into too below the effect of alcohol as nicely to quite appreciate which you will possibly desire to now no longer provide an stated consent or to tutor him down? as much as I hate to declare this, quite in case you additionally can think of or extremely are one hundred% specific this was rape, i'm uncertain they might prosecute besides and the single element you will possibly be doing is pushing him into retaliation by utilising potential of submitting for custody of your infant. If concerns are bigger between you and your boyfriend, him accepting of the duty of the new child, possibly, back I hate to declare this, you quite have have been given to leave solid sufficient on my own.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah u need to take his phone when hes sleeping and see his text messages or look on his myspace/facebook.

    or u can ask him and if he laughs about the question then u will know.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    check his cell phone

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