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for men only... do you like virgin women?

choose.... if you were gonna get married, would you rather do it with a virgin or with an expertised woman??

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I know you said for men to answer only but I had to put in my 2 cents. I married as a virgin and I am proud of that fact. Being a virgin now days is very rare and shows you have self control and restraint. In this world you need those things to get by. Not only does being a virgin show self control it shows self respect which 99% of the population now days does not have. If more men and women waited until marriage the world wouldn't have such a high divorce rate. I truely believe that becuase once you have sex you want more and more! It is a fact that once you are married for awhile you don't have sex as often. So if you were a virgin when you got married he was the only man you knew so you want be thinking about all the other men/women you had been with and are comparing her/him too. So you are more than lijkely going to have more sex than if you had not waited for marriage. I hope this makes so sense.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Yes.. But it's going to take a lot more hard work than usual (i.e. than if you both followed God's word and waited.) The key issue here would be forgiveness. Is he willing to wholeheartedly forgive you for your past mistakes/ sins? He has to be honest. If he can't, then he's not being as forgiving as our faith demands, and he won't be able to fully love you as God's creation. That relationship will have a lot more challenges to overcome. Another issue would be: have you admitted your mistake? To him and to a priest? Have you sincerely turned away from your mistake and repented for it? Are you honestly trying to become a better person now? If so, then you've got nothing holding you back from becoming good again. You can get into a normal, healthy and God-honoring relationship. If things don't work out, then I'm sorry.. Life is just like that. Not everyone is great at forgiving. I just hope that you never forget that things can still work out for you. There still are good people in this world, and I'm sure there are guys (pick just one, though, ahaha) out there who are capable of forgiving your sexual mistakes and then proceed to having a wonderful life with you. :)

  • 1 decade ago

    To me, it doesn't really matter if she's a virgin or not. It is about her personality and attitude towards life and things like that.

    If she's a virgin, I've got to be patient and understanding at first. It takes a few times before both partners will begin to enjoy it a lot more. The first couple of times, you naturally would feel anxious and may not focus on enjoying it that much.

    It's about being honest and upfront with each other about what you're comfortable about. Virginity is a nice thing. It should be something you're proud about and not feel ashamed to let him know.

  • 1 decade ago

    I married a virgin. I wasn't a virgin by no means. I had been with very experienced women and it is my opinion that my wife is the best of all of them. Life is long youth is short, experience will come.

  • virgin
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    100% a virgin woman because they have morals and respect themselves and probably are capable of giving more love than women who dont care to save themselves for their husband. I am a virgin male so also a woman being a virgin would understand my feelings wayyyyy better than a non virgin woman.

    Most of the guys that answered before me are concerned about sex first and thats why we have so a 65% divorce rate, they have become incapable of knowing how to truely love a woman other than expressing lust. PATHETIC

  • 1 decade ago

    Well experienced women are great no doubt, but you can train a virgin.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Absolutely. She's got class and is a rare species. She doesn't follow the crowd and that says a lot about her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, I would never marry a women who I had not yet had sex with. So, it would be the latter. However, I love popping a cherry, so if by chance I did happen to marry a 'virgin' she would only be a 'virgin' up to the time I met her. Not until I married her.

  • 1 decade ago

    You guys must be crazy. Give me the virgin every time. Don't like sloppy seconds. I'll teach her all she needs to know. I love popping sweet cherries!!!!

  • Steven
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Everyone knows you dream of having a virgin but grow up little boy that isn't going to happen so get over it and move on.

    I would like someone with as little experience as possible.

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