Son 15 yrs old great kid, but very low marks in last school report,got worst last 2yrs,what to do?

Parents always think kids education is school's business, actually a kids success has always a lot to do a parent involvement. I would like you to start with a warm up relationship with your son. Take him to favorite places, play games with him. Then try to go over him home work everynight. it is some pain to lot of parents, but i always take my time even I am very exhausted.

You also have to see how the child responds to your comment.

My daughter did not like I say "you did this wrong! go over the question and do it again!" I have to always start with some warmups like "Good job! almost 90% correct!" --because it is 80% correct. or "Great!" almost 100 % correct-- while it is 90 % correct. "Well not too bad, at least you tried it."

Then I tell her what was wrong, and gave her a hug and say, still a great job, love you" , "just need to fix this part and that part." Always follows with "let me know if you need help."-- And she happily goes over her work and fixes her works.

You will have to adjust your attitude that does not show such like" it is so easy, why can't you get it?!" --everyone is different-- do not hurt them.

At the same time-- talk to the teacher to see how he gets motivated in learning at school. Are there issues at school? big boy bullies-- if the child is not happy at school, he will not be able to concentrate. I ask my child everything when she comes home every little detail.

I do not normally let kids watch TV or play games during school days-- those are the distracting components. You need to gradually get your kid into a habit that after school first thing is homework. After homework is done right, reading is done, then he will be allowed to do a little bit TV. game is definitely not during weekdays because he can play all night and go to school to sleep during the day-- which maybe the cause of absentmindedness. I definitely think you should cut your game spending. But at this stage, take it away little by little just like a man quit smoking. --you can still let him play in the evening after homework checking (some kind of movitivation), take away from him at certain time like 10 O'clock- make him go to bed at regular schedule-- never leave in his hand overnight.

Love your child and spend time with him.

Good luck!

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Find out what's causing the behaviour. Grounding and taking away luxuries is only a temporary solution. Find the source of the problem. He may not talk too much at first, don't force it or he'll clam up for sure. But keep trying til you figure it out.

take away the x box first. and limit him from computer and tv. and tell him to study. and deff tell him how you feel. just sit down with him, & explain what the teachers told you.