Shasta Mcdude!!

I went out with this gal 4 months ago and had to break up coz of her having another bf on the side.She was pretty much messed up after this,..i know this for sure,and she really luvd me even though she had a side bf.She even told me,she waz the only boyfriend that she has ever had that she actually felt she was in an actual relationship.

So we met again sometime last week,and we talked went out for a movie and we ended up kissing and makin out,the she started crying telling me she is overwhelmed and doesnt know wasup.

She later tells me"we better be friends first coz she had a really messed up summer since we broke up,and she's trying to figure herself out.She then says that we should build on our friendship,and grow closer."Last sunday,we kissed,made out AGAIN,and i call her askin her wtf she wants,..friends or wat??She then says friends...

So i see her today and she makes passes at me,...and i ignore it coz she said friends,...

WAT THE **** SHUD I DO,..SO CONFUSED!!

So we we out for a couple of months,she waz the first gal that i eva thot we were meant to be,...so cool,smart n fun,but we had to end it coz of some stuff with her family,it was a mutual thing even tho we were both devastated...

So now i have this galfriend but every time am with her i keep on thinking bout my ex,..n i mean EVERY time.I dont hate her but am not just into her,..i thot she waz a cool gal but she iz not.I like her as a friend...kapish.

So were talkin today,me n my ex n she told me she dont wanna get anywhere next to me coz she might just break down n cry coz she misses me big n her issues r dissapearing,..its gettin better in her life.We talked for 5 hrs straight,n i hate talkin to my current gal on the phone coz she's just annoyin,...

So should i get back with my ex,..coz i feel like am running a life that i dont want with my current gal,..or should i just try to lluv her(current gf),.....help b4 i make a drastic move,..

So me n this gal went out for like 4 months.It was the perfect relationship,she waz the best gal ave ever had,n waz everything i wanted in a gal.So we broke up coz she had some commitment issues,..i.e she was still hangup bout her 3 exes n kept on bout callin em...so i waz like,..u either stop this **** or we through.

She dint stop n like i said,we were through after i found she lied when she went out of state to see one of her exes after she told me she went for a grad party...

After we broke up,she kept talkin n said we shud be friends,and i was cool with it.

So she started callin me n talkin for like 3 mins then say she will call back,which she never does.She;s done this like 6 times.When she did this i just texted her gdnyt.After her doing this more times i even stopped txtin her gdnyt n i was like **** it.

She then started txtin me n puttin words like "gdnyt luv.Miss ya"**** like that.

I luv her to death but after the experience with her,i dont want a galfriend,n ave made this clear to her.

So how shud i stop this,how shud i stop her from buggin me with this luv txts coz she doesnt listen...dang

And i know it waz a dumb move goin out with her thinkin she would leave her soon to be fiance,...yall dont have to mention that..have heard that many many times...lol

So we've been goin out for like a few months,n its alright.She still torn between me n her ex,n i decided to give her time think bout it,and choose w/e makes her happy...after all its all bout her.And at the same time,am play it safe just incse she goez the other way.

The other day she got pissed off at God knows wat.I asked bout her and she acted all bitchy and the works,caused a lil bit of drama.That aint the thing tho..

She says she doesnt wanna talk bout it and its personal n she will talk bout it when she's ready.Am concerned bout this esp coz she still hung up bout the other guy andwaz givin it untill the end off summer n c how it goez.

I know she was hurt before but she's kinda makin this hard for me,not talkin bout wasup....Communication bring pple 2gether.

WAT SHUD I DO??LET HER GO OR WAT!!AM GETTIN TIRED HERE..HELP!!

So i got his new gal,we've been goin out for 2 months plus.She luvz me as much as i do her.We also in the same school but diff classes,kinda awsome.

So i got into some financial problems,i got this speedin ticket that i gotta pay,some crappy credit card i wanna get done payin this summer n am still payin for skool

I really dont wanna involve her in my financial misfortunes,like i said..she cool,not materialistic n pretty much alright but messed up finances have a way of causing separations divorces and all that.

Am sure she's gonna notice like down the line,but should i let her know wasup or let her know on a need to know basis!

So me n this girl have been goin out for like a month.She's really cool n she loves me(she said it)as much as i luv her,thing is,..she says she's been engaged for sometime to some dude in a diff part of the world for 5 yrs.She says they talk ..

So i was talkin to her last week,i let her know that she should cut it off(our relationship),coz she claims the guy knowz n luvz her,..ALOT,n that she got engaged for a reason(I kinda figured that summed it all)..

So she did not break it off,but i kinda twisted her words in makin it sound like she cut me n i told her,i will be there for her,but this time as friends.

She started cryin n i was like,.i dont like gals cry,am not cris brown.So i told her,hey,how bout we give it sometime n see how it goes n see if u will still like the other guy,n she was ok with this.

WAZ I doing the ryt thing by giving her more time to choose??

So me n this girl have been goin out for like a month.She's really cool n she loves me(she said it)as much as i luv her,thing is,..she says she's been engaged for sometime to some dude in a diff part of the world for 5 yrs.She says they talk ..

So i was talkin to her last week,i let her know that she should cut it off(our relationship),coz she claims the guy knowz n luvz her,..ALOT,n that she got engaged for a reason(I kinda figured that summed it all)..

So she did not break it off,but i kinda twisted her words in makin it sound like she cut me n i told her,i will be there for her,but this time as friends.

She started cryin n i was like,.i dont like gals cry,am not cris brown.So i told her,hey,how bout we give it sometime n see how it goes n see if u will still like the other guy,n she was ok with this.

WAZ I doing the ryt thing by giving her more time to choose??

So me n this girl were going out for like 2 months.I know she luvs me as much as i do love her.The things is,she was/has been engaged for more than 5 yrs,n her"fiance" lives overseas in a diff country.They havent seen each other for that long even though they talk on the phone once in a while.

So today we were talkin n i asked her if she is till engaged,n if she is gonna make a choice.So she started tellin me how he luvs her,how he gets her,and how their families like each other and how he is a great guy and she doesnt wanna disappoint him.

So i kinda figure that am the 3rd wheel here and even though they havent seen each other for that long,she still luvs him.

She says she luvs me,i do luv her.I have been there for her,even missin work coz she was in ****,...but am kinda gettin this gut feeling sthn aint right.

So should i giver her more time to choose or should i just let it go from here??

THIS IS KILLING ME GUYZ!!

So am seeing this gal,we've been goin out for like a month n a half.I was talkin to her last nyt and i told her,she's kinda secretive n holding something in,..like she doesnt wanna open up.

She told me that she's holding in some of her feelings for me coz she doesnt wanna be devastated when something doent go ryt.

I really luv her and i dont wanna break her heart like the 2 previous excuse of boyfriends she previously had.

How can i make her open up without fearing that am gonna disappear??

She even thought that after we had sex thaT am gonna dissapear,but am still by her side like ever!!

The way she is closin her self in makes me feel like am the only one puttin any effort in this ****,...

SO HOW DO I HELP HER OPEN UP WITHOUT THE FEAR OF ME BREAKIN HER HEART??I FEEL LEFT OUT BIG TYM HERE.....

So the first time me n my galfriend had sex,she was all wierd n distant.So when i talked to her bout this,..she basically told me

Guys get distant after sex,n girls get attached after sex.But she got all distant after it,and a couple of days later,..she was back at being her old self like jumpin around my house and doin stuoid piggy back rides with me,..lol

So my question is,do girls get distant or attached.And if its attached,why did she get all wierd n stuff??

I have this best friend n we've been best friends for over 3 yrs.She's a real cool chic n fun n all that.

I got a new gal,who is really fun n everythin,but am in a dilemma here.

I really wanna give this new gal all my attention as much as possible,wanna make her feel like she's the only gal in the planet for me,but most of the time i am with her,my best friend calls n wants to talk bout stuff,like her issues...n all that.

I try n tell my best friend off coz its just rude to my new gal for me to be on the phone with another chic while she's there.

Today my bf asked me,..."i have known u for 3 yrs,n u have known the girl for 2 months.If worst comes to worst who would u pick?"basically tellin me to choose between my new gal n her...really frustrating.

Its getting to a point where when am with my gal,n the phone rings and its my best friend,she excuses herself n leaves for like 10 mins,totally frustratin.

What should i do here??I dont wanna loose this chance with this nice gal!!

So I was busted driving with no insuarance.The Insurance policy expired like 2 months before the busting,i dint know that since i wasnt at home where all the bills were being sent and stuff.I Am in school In MN

I know half of the answerers here are gonna call me an idiot,..but thats not an answer plus its besides the point.

So I got a new policy with a different company on the following day(couple of hrs after the busting),and i have tried to get my friend (he is an insuarance agent) to backdate my new policy with his company but he is supper hesitant.

I only need it to be backdated 2 days or a day,..before the inident.

So what are the options here,any fines or anything at all to pay and stop the thing going into my file,...at this point i feel like i can make as much payments as possible to stop this...

.Any Help here,similar incidents with happy endings(no license revocations)...Desperate and almost dying of anxiety...and i know it was dumb!!

So I was busted driving with no insuarance.The Insurance policy expired like 2 months before the busting,i dint know that since i wasnt at home where all the bills were being sent and stuff.I Am in school In MN

I know half of the answerers here are gonna call me an idiot,..but thats not an answer plus its besides the point.

So I got a new policy with a different company on the following day(couple of hrs after the busting),and i have tried to get my friend (he is an insuarance agent) to backdate my new policy with his company but he is supper hesitant.

I only need it to be backdated 2 days or a day,..before the inident.

So what are the options here,any fines or anything at all to pay and stop the thing going into my file,...at this point i feel like i can make as much payments as possible to stop this...

.Any Help here,similar incidents with happy endings(no license revocations)...Desperate and almost dying of anxiety...and i know it was dumb!!

So a couple of nights ago,i drove my new gal home and at her place we were talking and stuff.We started makin out,but had to stop it coz it waz goin a lil bit far,than expected..plus i wasnt prepared with protection or anything.

Out of the blue,she asked me if i was in a relationship and i said no.I then asked her,if she was still engaged...(it sayz so on her my space and twitter page.She even has a pic of some dude that she's supposedly engaged to...) ,but she went ahead giving me a whole story bout her past bf's...blah blah blah...

After i went home,she called me n we talked for a few mins,then i asked her..so are u engaged or not...n she said she has been for the last 5 yrs(mind u its a long distance thing,...seattle and atlanta,n they only talk like once a week,or sometimes 2-3 times a month)...

So should i just ask her if she's in for the whole 9 yards,or just for the sex...OR should i just go on with it and see where and how it goes??

IN DILEMMA HERE PEOPLE.

aLL smart answers will be appreciated.

So i was hanging out with this chic and we started makin out n stuff...we have been getting together and doing stuff like movies and u know just hangin out n stuff..

So last week we were makin out,and i just wanted to see how far i could push it.So we made out,i unbuttoned her shirt,jeans and everything...but we dint do anything....reason,she doesnt wanna screw up our friendship.

I waz like,so normal friends make out an almost get to the point of havin sex ??...Am confused here..

I asked her while i waz leavin ,so u wanna be my gal or just friends,and she said friends...but then she gave me this long kiss and hug.

So should i assume she dont know wat she wants,or should i assume we just special friends..lol

Help me out here!!

Am a student in the us,and came with a student visa.I am currently in process of getting permanent residentip.

I went for the interview and everything at the immigrations,i gave them all my documents including my passport with the 1-94 attached to it,but they kept the i-94 and gave me my passport,DL and everything else back.

Is this a good sign? my friends who have been in the same process say its a good thing but am still skeptic.

So is it??..a good thing i mean??

Am a student in the us,and came with a student visa.I am currently in process of getting permanent residentip.

I went for the interview and everything at the immigrations,i gave them all my documents including my passport with the 1-94 attached to it,but they kept the i-94 and gave me my passport,DL and everything else back.

Is this a good sign? my friends who have been in the same process say its a good thing but am still skeptic.

So is it??..a good thing i mean??

So i have this honda passport that is generally running fine,and an even better body and frame.Problem is, during the last oil crisis(this spring),gas was a hustle and a pain,keeping in mind i am financing it( i am half way through it)

So i am confused here..should i trade it in with a newer model,better mileage and set my self like 3000 bucks in financing,or keep on with this car and hope for the best in the economy and future gas prices.

PS:I dont mind driving it except for the mileage and for the repairs that come once in a while that is expensive.

Way back in the day,dating was refered to as...checking out a person,hanging out makin out doing the whole luv thing.Pretty much the same as most of today

But back in the day,datin was like for 23 and above

Today is like 12 and above.

And today dating kinda relates to ..a girl says hi,u hang out in the hall way and in the cafetaria...and whala!!!..u are dating.

So why and how has the dating scene changed so much?!?

Am sure by the time most of us are parents,dating will be like a couple of days after our kids are born...wtf??Sooo wrong!!