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I only masturbate to girls and can only date guys who remind me of girls. I also have this weird think where i can t *** unless a guy moans .. the right way, which basically means in a way that makes me able to pretend hes a woman. I m confused.

On my music page it say "106 likes"(I know what that mean, but right next to it, it says "8 talking about this" .. What does that mean when it says "talking about this?

I've pretty much decided that if I ever have kids, it wont be until I'm in my 30s...

It seems a lot of people wind up resenting their kids. I confess to having a dad who really seemed to resent us. As I am 21, I really don't care about his opinion anymore. I've accepted that he is a worthless piece of ****.

However, I've met some really nice guys who seem to want to have kids and they seem very attentive to their nieces and nephews. Very attractive men as well; I mean, these guys are pick of the litter if I do say so myself. Though I can see a future with them, I am not entirely sure I can see myself having kids with them even if they claim they can see both kids and a future with me.

But for some odd reason, I play this scenario in my head where we encounter and accident and I get knocked up by one of these amazing guys and it ruins my life. I have children I end up resenting and it ruins not just my sex life, but my life in general.

I've dated some really shitty guys as well; just douchebags. For someone who is 21, the amount of assholes I've dated is absolutely ridiculous(about 3 haha, as I've only really had 3 boyfriends). These assholes I've dated kind of holds be back from forming relationships with the really nice guys. I fear one of these nice guys will unintentionally get my pregnant and again, it will ruin my life.

Why am I so afraid of being a bad parent? Something in the back of my mind tells me I might want children when I'm older, but this fear is holding me back from ever wanting to consider children..

I've promised myself I will never be like my father, yet I'm still terrified I will be a horrible parent.

I know this question is kind of scattered, but I'd just like some insight from parents:

What makes a parent hate their children?

Aside from not having any, how can I ensure I don't hate mine?

Am I bound to feel miserable and tied down when I have children?

I know its a weird question and everybody is different.

I would like some insight on different perspectives of "being dominated".

Tell me what you like your partner doing to you/vise versa in order to feel dominated.

Thanks in advance!

I'm a 21 year old woman.

At the moment,the thought of giving kids seems out of the question to me.. I see that might change somewhere down the line.

However, there is something that I truly believe will not change: The idea of actually giving birth. I can't explain.

As a little kid, I knew I never wanted to give birth; even if I did have my own kids.

I would more than be willing to save up money and maybe by the time I'm in my early 30s do the whole gestational surrogacy method.

How often is this method used, and how much is does it generally cost per pregnancy?

While I understand that there are risks of complications when you get to a certain age, I am one of 13 children. Yes, you read that right. I have 12 other siblings, and I am number 4.

My mom gave birth to her last child when she was either 39/40. I can remember which year my youngest brother was born.

Anyway, the women in my family gave birth to a lot of kids and every one of us(siblings cousins, second cousin) all came out extremely healthy.

All of the relatives I grew up with-including my oldest sister- are having kids. Its just.. crazy. But hey good for them.

Anyway..

I of course don't plan to have as many myself, and I definitely don't plan to have them anytime soon..

My 21rst birthday is exactly a week away, and I've got to thinking how I am in no way shape or form ready; not financially or emotionally. I don't see myself being ready in my 20s at all.

I would like to reserve my 20s for dating, having fun, and just enjoying my life in general.

Maybe even into my early 30s. We'll see.

After all this thinking, I've come to the conclusion that 35 is the best age for me to have a baby.

How many of you didn't have kids until you entered your 30s? Input from young parents would be fine as well.

On that note, thank you all for your input!

Yes or no.

Why or why not.

Out of genuine curiosity, I would like to hear some opinions.

I'm turning 21 next month and I'm at this point in my life where I'm watching literally everybody have kids(not all taking care of them, however..) and their relationships are sort of falling apart.

My relatives sort of pressure to me to find a man and have children. Still, I'm not letting it affect me much.

Anyway, I have this fear that kids will either ruin my youth and/my body and I'll end up resenting them. I don't want to be on of those parents who goes out and dates other people.

I know I said that I'm not letting my relatives(who have pretty much all had a kid or two by 19-22) affect me in this aspect of my life, but, I've come to this decision that I will either have kids when I'm 23ish or in my early 30s.

However, when I sleep on it, I end up thinking something along the lines of "Damn, I am so tired today, kids are DEFINITELY out of the question for years to come". Yet, there are other days where I think, with the right person, taking care of a child, getting them read for school etc etc, might be nice and truly add to some sort of happiness in my imaginary marriage. But I ask myself.. Do I REALLY want something like this? Truly? Do I really want to give up my freedom? And at what costs?

Random question, I know, and I'm aware it's kind of scattered but, yeah.

Can't sleep, and would like to know if there is anyone else out there who's felt so indecisive about children while I kill time.

So, here's the story.

I'm all out of packaged ferret food, and won't be able to make a trip to town for a few days(as I live way out in the middle of nowhere).

I feel so horrible.

I let my ferrets out this morning and they were sniffing around, and well, it made me feel like a really bad pet owner.

I've researched online and it says that you can feed them COOKED vegetable and meat.

If so, this is a relief!

Any ferret owners, please get back to me as soon as possible!!!

The reason I was wondering was because, well, curiosity for one.

Also, people seem to think mine are quite big. But really, they are only in between a D and DD. Meaning, they definitely overfill a D but, don't quite fill out DD.

Another reason I was wondering is because, people seem to guess my weight to be much lower than it is. While I am slender for 5'5, I wonder if my chest might have something to do with this.

Weird question I know. But I just thought of it.

Oh, and if you could site your sources, that would be great.

Thanks in advance!

What are they?

I know some of you are going to say negative things, and thats fine haha

But seriously, I just wanna be a stay at home mom.

I imagine you can't really do anything in the mental health field.. Well, what can you do with a masters in psychology?

In YOUR opinion

Years, months etc..

How long were you together before you started a family.

:)

Thanks for your input!

In your opinion, of course.

What do you think are the worst things about moving in "too soon"?

How do yo think it affects your relationship.

I'm 5'4-5'5 and feel like that is more than acceptable.

I know that it sounds shallow, and it is,but oh well.

What do you girls think about dating short guys?