Saralahala wawa

I will warn you this story will probably be rather lengthy, but I'm trying to include every detail as to get the right feedback and to not seem as if I'm just telling my side of the story, this is exactly how it happened. Friday night my boyfriend and I went to a restaurant where a band we know and like was playing. He's not exactly the dancing type so when songs I really liked played I would go up and dance while he stayed at the table. At the end of the night while he was paying the bill I was dancing and a woman standing next to me recognized me from a bar I used to go to a lot. She introduced me to her friends behind me, who recognized me as well. I said hello and told them if they ever saw me at the bar feel free to say hello and turned back towards the stage and continued dancing. My bf apparently saw me talking to the girls guy friend and saw me dance with him dancing behind me and for whatever stupid reason assumed we were dancing together. He walked up to me and told me "you forgot me and your phone at the table" and shoved my phone down the front of my shirt and walked out to the car. I was so embarrassed I too walked out after that. I was extremely mad because that had been my first month out in 5 months because I have been working 7 days a week for months and requested Friday off just to see this band and have a few fun nights for myself finally. The hour car ride home was pretty silent until towards the end he finally said "I'm sorry, I completely overreacted and thought I saw something that wasn't even going on". In normal circumstances I would have accepted the apology and everything would have been fine. Usually that's all it takes to get over our issues in our relationship. But considering my level of stress lately, my rare amount of free time, and having a few drinks in me I just wouldn't have it. I told him to not speak to me for the rest of the night. Her kept apologizing and explaining himself the rest of the way and once we got there I asked him to leave and that I wanted to be alone for the night. I have the tendency to be irrational when I've been drinking so thought it best for him to just drive 5 mins down the road to his dads house to avoid any huge arguments. Me asking him to leave made him quite angry and he told me "fine, why don't I just leave for good then and pack my stuff". I just said whatever get out then. Started packing his stuff, we exchanged some very ugly things that I can't recall anymore. At one point something I said made him so mad that he took my dresser mirror and threw it. Seeing him throw something of mine set me off and the only thing in the room that was even his was the tv, which I was leaning against and I just pushed it right off the dresser and the screen cracked. Immediately when I saw what I had done I just froze and thought what the heck did I do. *** Everything after this I do not remember, but am going by what my bf has told me. While I was staring at the tv on the floor my boyfriend punched in the right side of my face, the punch knocked me off my feet and the left side of my head/temple/head smashed against the corner of the dresser and it knocked me out for at least 5 minutes. During these 5 minutes my boyfriend was still insanely angry and continued packing his things. When I came to I held my face and started crying. He came into the room and said "You asked for this". I kept crying and said "what happened?" When I asked him this he fell on his needs and just burst into tears telling me how sorry he was. I kept asking over and over what happened. Why there was broken mirror, tv and clothes all over the place and why my face hurt so much. Told me I broke the tv and that he hit me. I kept apologizing for the tv saying I didn't mean for it to happen and he just kept telling me he doesn't care about the tv at all, he just hopes I'm ok. He gave me some pain reliever and put me to bed. I got a concussion from, a swollen/ bruised face and a swollen tample/black eye. I have been out of work for 4 days because of it. My dilemma is that I have to idea where to go from here. We are 24, have been together 3 years, been living together for 2.5 and have recently have been talking about getting married. We were SO happy. I felt like what we had was so special and that he was definitely the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and I feel like this just completely broke what we had. NOTHING like this has EVER happened before. He doesn't seem like the kind of person who would do something like that at all. He's not an angry person at all and is very kind and gentle.I don't know where to go from here. I don't really have a question, I'm just so lost and feel so empty right now I just wonder what other people think of the situation. I haven't told anyone else about it.

I accidentally dropped my laptop yesterday and have now noticed my battery drains very quickly. What might be causing this and how do I go about fixing it?

Sorry this will be a long one, but I could really use some help. Ok so my boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years now. After living together for about 4 months I got let go from my job. I recieve $500 a month from a structured settlement so I was still able to pay my portion of the bills with about $100 left over. He offered to pay for groceries until I was able to find another job and get on my feet and with that $100 I still bought my own bath and beauty products and food for my pets. My boyfriend works full time making over $16/hr so he makes good money. I live in a very very small town so finding another job wasn't easy. I applied everywhere in town I could think of. I've had a few interviews and some second interviews, but not many. It took me 10 months to finally find work at a small convenience store that had hired me along with about 5 other people. Within a month of all of us being hired I was the only one left. Everyone else had quit because of how rude and mean the owners were. There were days I literally had to go into the bathroom just to keeo from freaking out or so they wouldn't see me cry. I wanted to quit so bad too, but I stuck it out because I didn't want to let my boyfriend down and for him to be disappointed with me. After about 4 months he saw how miserable I was and told me if things get too bad to get the heck out of there. That him seeing me that miserable was making him miserable and it wasn't worth it for what little money I was making. I gave it another 2 weeks until I couldn't take anymore. I quit. Luckily about 2-3 weeks later I found another job. I worked there for 2 weeks before finding out my mother was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at the end of July. My mother lives in NJ while I live in NC. Given the life expectancy of stage 4 lung cancer I quit my job so that I could have the time to go up and see her. Once a month for the past four months I have gone up to see her for about a 1-2 weeks using my structured settlement to pay for the trips and anything my mom needed while I was up there. So for the past four months my boyfriend has paid for pretty much everything besides for the cable/internet bill, which I still paid for. I know it has been stressing him out. It's not like he's broke, but he hates working as much and as hard as he does and most of it has to go to bills, even though he does still buy stuff for himself too. This past month I promised him to start looking for a job again, and I have. Today we got in an argument about money and he said he thinks that if anything were to happen to him where he couldn't work for a while that he'd be certain I would leave him. I said so you're basically accusing me of being a gold digger. He said well that's what it looks like. I was so shocked and hurt that he even thought that. To me it's like we have been together for over two years, share a home, yet this person doesn't know me at all if he thinks I could ever be that kind of person. So I wanted others opinions on the matter. Do I come off like a gold digger???

I just want to say that I did post this yesterday, but I wanted to get some more opinions so I'm reposting.

Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now (we are 24) and have been living together for about a year and a half. We love eachother and seem happy together, but something just feels off. That we're just not right for eachother or something.

I can definitely tell that I love him more and I enjoy our sex life more than he does. He's even admitted I love him more than he loves me and he doesn't need sex as much as I do. During our small little tiffies we'll usually go off in separate rooms so we can both cool off, but he'll always come to me first and hug on me to try and just get over it. But when it comes to really big arguments, like ones where breaking up seems possible, I am always the one chasing after him and apologizing and saying I love you, even if he was the one in the wrong. Honestly I think if it weren't for me chasing after him like that we probably would have broken up quite some time ago.

So today just more as like a cutesy joke I asked him how he would rate our sex life on a scale from 1-10. He said a 9. That didn't bother me or surprise me. I seem to very much enjoy our sex life and he says he likes it, but sometimes I get the vibe that he's not that into it. I just simply asked what we could do to improve it to a 10. He said idk maybe if I gave him more blowjobs. Which I don't really understand because I give him a complete bj atleast once every week and always use it as foreplay. I rarely ever get foreplay though. We never kiss for foreplay (unless i try), I never recieve oral ever, we never have sex naked, our shirts are always on (unless i try). All I ever get is the occasional rubbing and my nipples sucked. So that's my first concern. Then I asked him how much he loved me on a scale from 1-10. He said 9.8. Is that something that I should be worried about or am I maybe looking into this a bit too much. I mean I really meant it as a joke when I was asking, but I was kinda surprised at the answers he gave.

Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now (we are 24) and have been living together for about a year and a half. We love eachother and seem happy together, but something just feels off. That we're just not right for eachother or something.

I can definitely tell that I love him more and I enjoy our sex life more than he does. He's even admitted I love him more than he loves me and he doesn't need sex as much as I do. During our small little tiffies we'll usually go off in separate rooms so we can both cool off, but he'll always come to me first and hug on me to try and just get over it. But when it comes to really big arguments, like ones where breaking up seems possible, I am always the one chasing after him and apologizing and saying I love you, even if he was the one in the wrong. Honestly I think if it weren't for me chasing after him like that we probably would have broken up quite some time ago.

So today just more as like a cutesy joke I asked him how he would rate our sex life on a scale from 1-10. He said a 9. That didn't bother me or surprise me. I seem to very much enjoy our sex life and he says he likes it, but sometimes I get the vibe that he's not that into it. I just simply asked what we could do to improve it to a 10. He said idk maybe if I gave him more blowjobs. Which I don't really understand because I give him a complete bj atleast once every week and always use it as foreplay. I rarely ever get foreplay though. We never kiss for foreplay (unless i try), I never recieve oral ever, we never have sex naked, our shirts are always on (unless i try). All I ever get is the occasional rubbing and my nipples sucked. So that's my first concern. Then I asked him how much he loved me on a scale from 1-10. He said 9.8. Is that something that I should be worried about or am I maybe looking into this a bit too much. I mean I really meant it as a joke when I was asking, but I was kinda surprised at the answers he gave.

I have a 2007 Pontiac G5. I just brought it to the shop to get my oil changed and was informed that I had a gas leak. On the receipt they printed me it sai they advised me about the fuel leak. They told me they couldn't tell exactly where it was coming from without dropping my gas tank, costing $200 just to do that. So my boyfriend, who has done a lot of work on cars himself said he'd take a look at it to see if he could fix it before blowing a ton of money for a mechanic. I did research online about fuel leak problem with G5s and read they had a recall for the exact problem about developing cracks in the fuel system. By the time I read this my boyfriend had already dropped the tank himself and confirmed that the cracks were what was causing the leak. When he was working on it apparently it cracked completely off. So my question is, is the recall void now because of this? If so is there anything that can be done to reverse it?

i have a 94 z28 camaro with 140000 miles on it and i just bought the car, its been sitting for 3 yrs and the guy told me the transmission drive gear went out, so i drive it for awhile and my abs inop light comes on and it vibrates at around 60 mph and a red light comes on what does that check??? i would like to know whats the gauges function and what do i need to do ????

when i first crank it up every morning or any time during the day it is hesitated to crank. It turns over for like 5 to 10 seconds before it starts up, when it is warmed up it doesnt do it anymore. what is the problem?

Ok so I am 23 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and half now, moving in together only 2 months after dating. We're honestly really happy together. We rarely ever argue, we have no drama in our relationship, and our sex life for the most part is great. Lately, however I have had this strong urge to cheat and I don't know why and it's starting to get really hard to ignore. My last boyfriend I was with for 5 and a half years (lived with him for 5 years) and I will be honest and say that I did cheat on my ex. Please don't start with the name calling and telling me what a terrible person I am. I was young, I made my mistakes, but I've learned from them and I'm not that same immature person that I used to be. I have no intentions of cheating on my current boyfriend, I am just simply looking for advice as to why I might feel this way and how to deal with these feelings. I know that it's normal to fantasize about other people, but I've never done that throughout our relationship. I didn't pay attention to other guys at all because my boyfriend just held all of my attention and desires and it felt unnatural to even have thoughts like that about someone else. Then one day, like the flip of a switch, my hormones have been going crazy ever since. So please, any insight would be greatly appreciated.

i have a grant version steering wheel and i have everything in the right position except for the horn, I have the horn right but here is the problem, my horn keeps staying on after ive touch the horn button and it stays on after i let off of it. It seems like the ground wire is is touching continuingly after i press the horn button is there a way to rig the horn grounder up so it will not stay on plz help

How do people lower there cars? I know there's like air shocks and air bags, but I honesly don't know anything about that. Can anyone tell me what would be the cheapest way to lower the car. Possibly send me links to certain products I would need to buy. I plan to buy whatever it is I need off of ebay for my 2007 Pontiac G5 I just need to know what it is I should be looking for. Thanks!

ok, i have an 85 camaro with a 350 crate eigine high compression motor and it turns over and wont start. i changed spark plugs there are used but are filled down and in good shape, when u first crank it within a few hours or a day it might start up and cut back off and will never start back up again no matter how long i try it. i was thinking it mite be the carb is too big the carb works good by the way and its a 750 carb, im thinking its flooded when i keep trying to crank it, the guy i bought it from said he just set the timing on it and tuned up which i think hes lying, what else could it be?????

i have a 350 crate motor and I was wandering if I could put a supercharger on an old school motor???? plz help?

Ok so I need to get some new tires on my Pontiac G5. I was going to get a good brand of lightly used set on Craigslist, but decided against it. Tires are pretty important and I don't wanna make a mistake. What are some affordable/dependable tires? I am really trying to get new tires plus the mounting and balancing for less than $400. That's my budget. Firestone has a good deal on tires right now, but I hear some people complain about them. Any suggestions or guidance on this would be extremely halpful. Thanks!

Ok so last night I got a bit tipsy while me and my bf were surfin the internet together. Being drunk of course I was in the mood. So I put some porn on to try to get my man in the mood too (first time this has ever happened), but it didn't work out. He seemed like it made it umcomfortable to watch while I was around. So a little bit of time passes and he mentions being tired and wanting to go to bed. So we go to bed and as soon as he assumes I am asleep he sneaks out of bed to get back on the computer to take care of business. Is that messed up of am I making too much of it?

ok so i have an 02 ford explorer and i have found out that the hoghead was at one point is leaking and not anymore, im guessing it has leaked when it was hot? and i hear a slight grinding noise and the cv axle is loose on the hub. I dont think its the wheel bearing because that doesnt wabble its the cv axle that whabbles with the hub. Could someone tell me whats wrong maybe axle grease ran out?? Anything else i should know that would really be helpful

So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, living together for almost that entire time. Things are great and we are both very happy with each other. Of all my sexual partners he has definitely satisfied me best. My only complaint is that he literally never gives me oral sex. I was the first one he ever gave oral sex to and he has admitted to me that he thinks it's kind of gross. What can I do about this. For the time we have been together I would say he hasn't given me oral sex anymore than MAYBE 7 times, but I have performed oral sex on him probably in the triple digits now. And those few times he has gone down on me I had to basically beg/complain just to get it. If I say I'm not gonna give him oral sex until he gives me some he gets all pissy with me and I just continue doing it regularly to him anyways. Any tips?

**And I know I'm not married but the singles & dating category is never helpful as it is usually filled with immature teens who have no clue what real relationship problems even are. The people in this category are usually very helpful and informative.

i have a 350 crate motor, it already has a cam, dont know what kind exactly and 750 elderbrock car, and headers, what else can i do to increase hp?

I have a crate 350 motor in an 84 camaro. I cranked it the other day and it ran for like 5 seconds and then it cut off. Now my battery drains over and over again trying to crank it. It turns over but won't start. I tried the fuel pump, that works fine. I changed spark plugs, still nothing. I also tried pouring gas in carborator, but still nothing. What could be the problem?

When driving on the road the rear end is making a noise. The left brake hub is also very wobbly.