jane

When it comes to online dating, I see it all the time. I MAKE IT CLEAR, that I want children. And men who don't want children contact me. Sometimes they even mention that they have taken the time to read my profile.

Are these men stupid or something?

Judy started talking bad about me on her Facebook wall. 

 Everyone on her Facebook could see what she was saying about me. 

Judy didn't know that once I messaged her, I could see what she was saying about me.It really upset me when I saw her talking bad about me online. Especially since it was her side of the story.Was it a good idea for Judy to badmouth on her wall? Should she have kept the negative things that she said about me in a private message with her cousin instead?

John is 50 and isn't sure about having kids.

 Jane is 38 and has made it clear on her profile that she wants to date someone less than 46 years old. 

Jane finds the idea of dating a man well over a decade older than her absolutely disgusting!

She has also made it clear that she wants children.

John isn't sure if he wants children.

Should John be expecting Jane to put aside her age preference and desire to have children to marry him?

FYI: I make it clear that I want to date a man between 36-45. John is 50. Well over a decade older than me. Making him quite 'old' for my tastes.

John (age 50): Would you make an exception in regards to the age preference?

Me (age 38): Hi John, I guess it's true that men prefer to date women who are much younger than them.

John (age 50): You're a bit younger than me. But your age had nothing to do with my interest in contacting you. I decided to contact you because I really like your profile.

Me (age 38): Oh, ok then. So what are you looking for. I would like to marry and have children.

John (age 50): I would like to marry. But kids, I'm not sure. I really love my nephews, but having my own kids. I'm not sure about that. I'm looking forward to having some really great conversations with you.

Brady Robertson destroyed a family and left a father without his wife and three beautiful children.

Brady Robertson has caused nothing but trouble and heartache to families.

So why is it so wrong to wish Brady dead from cancer. Or this mother dead from cancer for giving birth to him in the first place?

I want to marry and have children.

At 50, John wants to marry but isn't sure about wanting children.

Is John stupid to pursue me even though it's obvious that he's not compatible with me?

Is it against Christian Charity to celebrate the death of a sadistic serial killer? Why?

One day John finds my profile online, he knows that he's well over my age preference. He is 50. I am 38. I have made it clear that I do not want to date anyone over 10 years older than me. I have also made it clear that if still possible, I would like to have children. John, decides to contact me anyway and asks me to make an "exception" for him, in regards to his age.

John (age 50): Would you make an exception in regards to the age preference?

Me (age 38): Hi John, I guess it's true that men prefer to date women who are much younger than them.

John (age 50): You're a bit younger than me. But your age had nothing to do with my interest in contacting you. I decided to contact you because I really like your profile.

Me (age 38): Oh, ok then. So what are you looking for. I would like to marry and have children.

John (age 50): I would like to marry. But kids, I'm not sure. I really love my nephews, but having my own kids. I'm not sure about that. I'm looking forward to having some really great conversations with you.

Back when I was a stupid young and naive virgin, I posted pictures of Judy's dead cousin's yearbooks on Facebook.

Judy got angry at me for doing so and I apologized to her and took the photos down. And never posted photos of people's loved ones that I didn't know ever again for ****'s sake!

Judy never accepted my apology. She never acknowledged it. And went on to judge my heart, even though her Bible god says that she's not suppose to do that.

So should Judy practice what she preaches and accept my apology? 

13 years ago, I emailed a woman under a fake name. Eventually I confessed and she told me everything was OK. 2 years later, I found out that this woman turned on me and had started telling other people about what I did. 

Soon, the whole world new about it in part because of her cousin who preaches the "importance of forgiveness" on her Facebook page!!!The woman that I wrote to under a fake name died 9 years ago.Can we all let this go now? 

Mrs. Wright preaches the importance of forgiveness on her Facebook profile. But 11 years ago, Mrs. Wright would not accept my apology when I apologized to her over something I didn't mean. Does that make Mrs. Wright a ******' hypocrite? I mean, she never accepted my apology even though she preaches forgivness.

I make it clear on my dating profile that I want children. Even though I made this clear, men who don't want children continue to write to me. Even men, with **** step kids. 

Why do men so blatantly ignore my desire to have children? Do they not know how much I would hate being married to a man who doesn't want children? Do they not know how much I would mistreat them?