mischief

Why did you start? I had a b/f for 3-4 years who smoked alot, so i kinda got used to having the scent around me and sitting and talking with him while he smoked - so i was a passive smoker. We broke up and i suppose i had a sort of strange withdrawal effect. I have since bought myself my own and occasionally smoke them. I enjoy the lightheadedness from long deep breaths while smoking. I use them when i'm stressed but don't have anything else to take it out on, and when i'm drudging through the day, because the sudden shift in perspective from the lightheadedness seems to refocus my mind on my current surroundings. Does this seem weird compared to your experiences? I worry that i might become addicted, as i'm very slowly starting to use more. Why did you start? How did you stop, if you did?

I watched an Indian movie (Main Hoon Na) where the principal character held his earlobes every so often. I don't understand the reason behind this. Could someone please explain this to me?

Hi. I really like my guy and i really like sex..but my problem is that it's now just kinda feeling like just a whole lot of pump-pump action and that's it..i mean god he likes it...it feels good but it's kinda boring and repetitive and monotonous...i'm not sure if it's just me or not...when i'm on top i just feel silly because to me it is just pump-pumping..nothing interesting...i wonder if it's because i just can't get my head into any sexual headspace..i'm a daydreamer and i do during sex too but it's never really sexual...i'm feeling a lil redundent in this area right now...i'd love to just be completely in a sexual headspace and overcome with being in tune with my guy's body and what's going on but i'm not and i don't know how to get there. Also foreplay is like 5 mins with my guy. and because he's my first and i've been with him for years it's always been like that and my mind just blanks when it comes to me coming up with ideas. Any help would be graciously accepted.

Hi. Um, this summer i went on a tour up north in Australia and i met this guy and we had a great fun lil sex/hang out time for the 2 weeks that the tour lasted for. He has so so many qualitites that i'd love in a perfect partner, and i guess i didn't know him for long enough to discover anything i don't like abt him, so maybe he's on a pedistal in my head. But i really fell for him and now it's over and i can't let him go in my head and i'm finding it incredibly tough. We have each other's email but i know that for him it is over now that we're back in our separate countries and back in our "real world lives" away from the holiday atmosphere. Just really missing him and sad because i liked everything about him when i was with him and even looking back trying to pick holes in him i can't find anything i don't like. :( please help. don't know what to do to dull his memory in my heart and clear the way for someone else who lives in my country....

Can anyone suggest some makeup that would suit please? I find that most browns just make my skin look dirty. Does anyone else get that from certain colours? Anyway, thanks for any help. Also does anyone have any tips for small eyes and making them appear larger?

My b/f hd a v. emotionally disruptive chldhd.He nvr learnt to communicate properly.but I nd tht in a relatnshp.He’s nt a big tlkr anyway. I’m fndg it hrd. A mutual frnd of ours says gettin anythng outta hm is lke gttng blood outta a stone(lke jst askng ‘hw’s u and hr going?’) I dn’t knw where I stnd with hm becoz he nvr talks abt hw he feels or anything, he gets defensive anytime I ask smething to do with us-he acts like I shld jst knw frm the way he acts-but I cn’t. All I see is someone who, likes me and hs a dirty mind and enjoys sex- I wnt mre of an emotional/mental connection. Sex dsn’t mean too much 2 me w/o it-I fl like we lack any intimacy.Hw do I mke him mre open to me? Ws lke ths evn b4 he wnt ovrseas on exchnge, he’s being faithful I knw. But I’ll write hm emails thru the day, kpng hm in touch w. wht I’m up to & I’ll get only a shrt email back from him.like no description,no real communication. I dn’t knw wht 2do or hw 2 gt thru 2 hm - I’m getting v. unhppy.